On the Peculiar Lives of Christians

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The following letter, The Letter to Diognetus, is part of one of the earliest apologetic writings [You can read the whole thing here].  The purpose of the letter was to demonstrate that Christians were not a danger to the city.  The anonymous writer is by no means the last to make such an argument.

For Christians cannot be distinguished from the rest of the human race by country or language or customs.  They do not live in cities of their own; they do not use a peculiar form of speech; they do not follow an eccentric manner of life.  This doctrine of theirs has not been discovered by the ingenuity or deep thought of inquisitive men, nor do they put forward a merely human teaching, as some people do.  Yet, although they live in Greek and barbarian cities alike, as each man’s lot has been cast, and follow the customs of the country in clothing and food and other matters of daily living, at the same time they give proof of the remarkable and admittedly extraordinary constitution of their own commonwealth.  They live in their own countries, but only as aliens. They have a share in everything as citizens, and endure everything as foreigners. Every foreign land is their fatherland, and yet for them every fatherland is a foreign land.  They marry, like everyone else, and they beget children, but they do not cast out their offspring.  They share their board with each other, but not their marriage bed.  It is true that they are “in the flesh,” but they do not live “according to the flesh.”  They busy themselves on earth, but their citizenship is in heaven.  They obey the established laws, but in their own lives they go far beyond what the laws require.  They love all men, and by all men are persecuted.  They are unknown, and still they are condemned; they are put to death, and yet they are brought to life.   They are poor, and yet they make many rich; they are completely destitute, and yet they enjoy complete abundance.  They are dishonored, and in their very dishonor are glorified; they are defamed, and are vindicated.  They are reviled, and yet they bless; when they are affronted, they still pay due respect.  When they do good, they are punished as evildoers; undergoing punishment, they rejoice because they are brought to life. They are treated by the Jews as foreigners and enemies, and are hunted down by the Greeks; and all the time those who hate them find it impossible to justify their enmity.

To put it simply: What the soul is in the body, Christians are in the world.  The soul is dispersed through all the members of the body, and Christians are scattered through all the cities of the world.  The soul dwells in the body, but does not belong to the body, and Christians dwell in the world, but do not belong to the world.  The soul, which is invisible, is kept under guard in the visible body; in the same way, Christians are recognized when they are in the world, but their religion remains unseen.  The flesh hates the soul and treats it as an enemy, even though it has suffered no wrong, because it is prevented from enjoying its pleasures; so too the world hates Christians, even though it suffers no wrong at their hands, because they range themselves against its pleasures.  The soul loves the flesh that hates it, and its members; in the same way, Christians love  those who hate them.  The soul is shut up in the body, and yet itself holds the body together; while Christians are restrained in the world as in a prison, and yet, themselves hold the world together.  The soul, which is immortal, is housed in a mortal dwelling; while Christians are settled among corruptible things, to wait for the incorruptibility that will be theirs in heaven.  The soul, when faring badly as to food and drink, grows better; so too Christians, when punished, day by day increase more and more.  It is to no less a post than this that God has ordered them, and they must not try to evade it.

The argument in this letter reflects the tone of those seeking to gain legitimacy as a minority within a larger group.  Apologetic approaches from the times and places where Christians are in the majority take on a dramatically different tone.  The former arguments demonstrate that Christianity seeks to redeem the community through identifying common goals, lives, values, etc.  The latter arguments are more focused on demonstrating the theological differences and uniqueness of Christian belief, values, culture etc. and calling the lost world to be part of that movement.   For many generations now, apologists, pastors, and theologians have signaled the alarm that the era of the Christian dominated culture is now over.  These voices begin with Schaeffer, who as in most things was ahead of the curve, to a wide array of contemporary voices: Driscoll, McLaren, Keller, Baucham, Frost, Hirsh and countless others.  Assuming that this is the case, and I believe it is, then there is much we can learn from the anonymous letter to Diognetus.

  1. Be part of what exists and look/act the part. We are notorious for carving out little sections of culture for ourselves, or worse, creating copy-cat versions.  We are also notorious for the way we look and act, and rarely in a good way.  “Xianity” on twitter made the following joke: “CULTURE: Hundreds converted at area mall by Christian dad’s t-shirt depicting clever pun of a candy bar and Jesus’ name.”  I grew up with tons of people who would only wear “Christian” t-shirts and listen to “Christian” music—It is little wonder the music industry is suffering and fads from the 70’s are back, something has to fill the void.  It amazes me that God made an entire world without stamping a Bible reference on anything, and we can’t even make a breath-mint without “Christianizing” it (and selling it for twice as much…). The author of the letter argued that believers of his day sought no such social dichotomy.  There was no “us/them” distinction.  Being part of the host group goes beyond vocabulary and dress—though those are important.  Rather than live our lives in the “secular” world we carve out similar places.  People go to coffee shops and so we create our own coffee shops and beckon the masses to change their loyalties.  Rather than redeem existing schools, we copy and paste private Christian schools.  When we want to help the community, we go past existing organizations which would gladly receive us and create our own humanitarian organizations which often lack the longevity and practical wisdom to make a lasting impact.
  2. Take full stake in your life in your host culture.  They married and had children and planted their lives there.  They thought of their home as a fatherland and themselves as citizens.  One attitude that has always bothered me is the platonic notion that this world does not matter since we will all be taken out of it.  There is always the weight of eternity, but God loves the here and now nonetheless.  He is seeking to restore all things to himself.  Just like the exiles in Jeremiah’s day were instructed to plant their lives, so lived the early Christians.  We often live with one foot in the kingdom and the other in the American dream.  Our spiritual imagination is convicted and inspired by preachers who can cast a vision of an active community reaching out sacrificially to its host community.  We often cannot follow this dream because we are too far leveraged as it is.
  3. Do not claim rights in the culture.  This appears contradictory to point two.  While early believers were fully vested in their cities, they were at the same time aliens.  Content with their status as exiles and foreigners, they did not seek a “place at the table”.  Strategically speaking, this mindset is freeing.  We are always free to do as we please.  Often, we must be willing to take our lumps for doing so.  We are afforded certain privileges of freedom in this country, but as those wane, many will echo the sentiment of the Acts 17 apologetics guys.  Sadly, rather than retooling and starting new, many will mire themselves in political debate.  Life is short brothers, choose wisely.

There are countless other observations which can be gleaned from this letter, but I will leave that to the brilliance and wisdom of the readers.  I long for the day when we can echo the sentiment of this letter in our own culture.