Leading People to Discipleship through Service
Posted by Rob Ayers in Baptist Life, Church & Missions
There was a time here in my current ministry that I felt that I was alone, and doing it all by myself. Those certainly are lonely times as probably many of you can affirm. It is at this point a great temptation can occur – the sly use of guilt and manipulation can be used to “encourage” service among people unsure of what to do. What I have found however is that this use of “personal motivation” does not really work. I can encourage and show others by my example God honoring service. It is God who is the greatest of motivators in all things. All my experience, knowledge of ministry, and education comes to nothing in comparison to how the Master works. He is the Great Motivator. I find that I am often in prayer that He will send me that one person for this task or the other. And you know – He always does!
I find that most people really do desire to serve to show appreciation and celebration for what God has done for them. Also I find that many currently are on the sidelines because they have never been invited to serve in any capacity at all! My task is to find those people, and then invite them to the work. There will always be some who say no – Jesus Himself did not always find those who were willing to follow Him when confronted with the choice.
I find when I use guilt-laden speeches, or I use begging as a tool, or make imploring pleas, they are really not good enough, worthy, or really work well at all. I strongly encourage my Nominating Committee to pray for those we talk about for this task or that, and then to approach them individually with the invitation serve.
With Discipleship comes Service. Always. The strong focus of God’s leading the individual in His way will always lead the disciple to seek those areas in which God is leading him/her. It is the task of the church and her spiritual leadership to both make available the training necessary to equip the believer for service, as well as provide the means in which the believer can then serve in a capacity that brings glory to God and edifies the Body of Christ.
Because of this focus, we have had many in my small church who at one point were not serving who are now serving in some capacity. Some years ago a young man wanted to see me. I had been trying to visit him, but I had always received the cold shoulder. He was a member of our church, but was living with his girlfriend down the road – I had never met him but I prayed for him often. He came to see me on that day a broken man – a man who both wanted and needed to “get back in church” and to restore his relationship with Christ and His people. I ministered to him, prayed with him, and encouraged him in following Christ and being His disciple. He now is a serving, vibrant Christian who has many gifts which he is willing to use for God’s glory. He serves as the substitute teacher for his Sunday School class as well as a trustee for our congregation. I recently baptized his daughter who is one of the most knowledgeable, spiritual young girls I have ever met, and upon whom the Spirit of God was and is most definitely speaking. This has often how my ministry has worked – one person, one family at a time. It is often a slow process to bring that one into a place that is glorifying to our Lord, but the wait is well worth it!



This is where God’s grace has stimulated and stirred my heart for a long time. Our church has recently organized itself around the book, “Simple Church”. We have six (6) Teams now and the one I am on is the Discipleship Team. Our group is made up of six (6) people who volunteered or desired to be on this team. However, each one of us are coming from different backgrounds and different ideas on how to approach it.
I like your example. It follows more of a biblical Christlike approach. I think of the video that is out called “Norman”. When we are obedient to God’s instructions and we are sensitive to His grace working within our lives we are more apt to stumble onto a person God wants us to disciple. Those desires do not come upon us for nothing. When we disciple someone it also turns into a life changing experience for us, too.
Well said, Rob. Gordon T. Smith (1999) writes in his book, Courage and Calling: Embracing Your God-given Potential, “it is through vocation that we come to an appreciation that God takes us seriously” (p. 9). What better way for the leadership of our churches to show we take each believer seriously then by offering training and resources to equip them to serve the Body of Christ. Our commitment to them affirms our appreciation and shows that we are committed to helping them realize their calling and put it into action.
Brother Rob,
This reminded me of John’s crisp insight to his “Children”…..
1 John 4:19-21 We love, because He first loved us. (20) If someone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen. (21) And this commandment we have from Him, that the one who loves God should love his brother also.
Discipleship is love, and very good commandment from the one who first loved us….and continues to sanctify us.
Good word my friend,
Blessings,
Chris
If you haven’t seen the story by the name of “A Man Called Norman” you haven’t seen what true evangelism and discipleship is all about. It’s a must see and a good training film for the family. It is well worth it. Of course, the best training is by personal example.
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I’m kinda surprised that “The Shack” has consumed everyone’s attention this week. That’s fiction! This is the most important issue we have. It is the Great Commission and has the least comments. It’s like, “Oh, yeah. We know about that. Nuff said.”
Agreed Bruce, Agreed.
Rob
Rob,
Last night my dad called and told me that his sister (my aunt) who has about 5 days left to live has accepted Christ from her daughter’s final attempt to lead her to Christ. She has cancer and is about 80 years old. Her daughter, Cindy, was in a car wreck at the age of 8 with my dad, her brother and myself in a Volkswagon in 1969. She had severe brain damage and was considered disabled. She began to go to church with a friend and was saved. She was discipled by this friend and others in the church. Her faith is strong and she persevered over the years until salvation came to her mother yesterday. She led her father to the Lord before his death in 2002.
It is so amazing to see God’s sovereign hand move over a 40 year period. Cindy has, what I would consider, a true thorn in the flesh. Each time I see her I can see the living form of what Christ told Paul, “My grace is sufficient for you for my strength is made perfect in weekness.” Cindy expresses the kind of joy I think I would see in Paul’s face. She told my dad last night that she is going to begin praying and working on her brother now. What a wonderful God we serve. It’s all about winning and discipling like we have been commanded. Amen.
Bruce,
Your Aunt Cindy’s story has tears in my eyes! I have a daughter who is four, and I started visualizing a precious girl of 8 being maimed and disabled by a car accident. Yet God used Cindy despite that!
That is my ministry – one person, one family at a time! We all play a part! We all have something to share!
I am praying for Cindy and her brother now that Christ would begin a good work and bear fruit for His glory!
Thank you Bruce for sharing this. And yes, this is a lot more important than talking about “The Shack.”
Rob
Praise God, Rob.
You ought to try writing a story like this without crying. My emotion comes from these kind of true stories. Wouldn’t it be something if our churches had testimonies like this on a weekly basis. Our people would have a different focus.
Thanks for your prayer and I have prayed for you and your ministry, as well.
If you get a chance to find and watch the true story “Beyond the Next Mountain” you will be blessed by what God did with one person obedient to His call. It’s the whole purpose of our discipleship as you have mentioned with the one person, one family at a time.
Thank you so much for your good comments. I’ve been blessed.
May God Bless.