Stumbling Blocks
January 29th, 2008 by David RogersPosted in Culture, David Rogers, Evangelism, SBC Issues, Unity |
Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck, and to be drowned in the depth of the sea. Woe to the world because of its stumbling blocks! For it is inevitable that stumbling blocks come; but woe to that man through whom the stumbling block comes! Matthew 18:6-7 (NASB)
We all know that the baptism rate within the Southern Baptist Convention is dropping. A lot of the blame for that has been placed on believers in Baptist churches not being bold enough in their personal witness. I am most definitely NOT saying that is not a part of the problem on which we need to work, especially in light of the findings of the new Lifeway study suggesting that non-believers are more open to our individual witness than many have suspected. At the same time, though, I have a very strong suspicion that a boatload of the blame can be laid somewhere else: stumbling blocks.
The Greek word for ‘stumbling block’ is the word ‘skandalon’. And sadly, as Southern Baptists and Evangelicals, we have not been free from scandal. We are all familiar with the stories of those who have fallen into sexual sin or wrongly used their ministry position for material gain. And, whenever we point the finger at those of other faith traditions and denominations, we need to remember there are three fingers pointing back at us. But, in addition to these obvious stumbling blocks, I would like for us to think about a few others…
A couple of days ago, I had the joy and privilege of receiving the visit here in the Memphis area of a new friend of mine, fellow blogger Paul Grabill. Paul is pastor of the State College Assembly of God in State College, Pennsylvania, and a leading advocate, both locally and nationally, for the practice of unity in the Body of Christ. Having a good part of the day to fellowship together, I decided to take him to see one of my favorite places in Memphis, the National Civil Rights Museum, located at the site of the old Lorraine Motel, where Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was assassinated in 1968. The walk through the museum exhibit is a highly impacting experience, one I highly recommend whenever you happen to be in Memphis.
At one point in the visit, Paul turned to me and commented: “How sad that because of racism and discrimination, so many people have been kept from seeing Jesus for who He really is.” The saddest part for me is how, as the exhibit pointed out, on so many occasions, the Bible and Christianity have been used (or abused) as a pretext for propping up slavery, racial hatred and bigotry.
Some people say that racism, by and large, is no longer a major issue among us. Thankfully, we have indeed made some major strides forward (see, for example, here, here, and here). But, as Southern Baptists, I do not think we can afford to ignore the words of people like Dwight McKissic, when they remind us there is still more we can do that has not yet been done to counteract the despicable legacy of bigotry that has stood in the way of so many seeing Jesus for who He really is.
Closely related to the matter of race relations is the question of disputes and divisions along denominational lines. Many, many pages have been written on the question of denominations, the danger of doctrinal compromise, and the ‘ins and outs’ of how to faithfully work towards greater unity within the Body of Christ. I am not going to go into further detail on this subject here except to remind us that Jesus said “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” (John 13:35). The undeniable truth is that division in the Body of Christ comprises one of the most significant stumbling blocks today still standing in the way of lost souls being reconciled with God through Jesus Christ.
At the risk of being controversial, I am going to come out and say here that I believe that political involvement in the American church has become a major stumbling block as well, especially since the development of the Religious Right in the last thirty years or so. I personally am totally committed to the defense of the sanctity of human life, and believe that, as Christians, we should do everything within our grasp to save lives and defend the innocent. However, as Evangelicals, I believe we are just shutting our eyes if we refuse to recognize the correlation between our involvement in secular politics and rising skepticism and indifference towards us on the part of the unchurched.
Of course, each of us is going to have our own perspective and opinion on any number of issues up for public debate. And, our relationship with Christ need not preclude maintaining and expressing them in a Christ-like manner. But, I think we must be very careful to avoid making issues on which the Bible is either silent or ambiguous a part of a rubber-stamped pre-approved Christian agenda. Jesus loves the people in the “blue states” just as much as those in the “red states.” And, nowhere do I read in my Bible: “Come unto me all who are weary, become good Republicans, and I shall give you rest.” Okay, maybe we have never directly said that. But, for some reason or another, it seems like a whole lot of people have gotten that general impression. And, in the end, what’s more important—winning elections or seeing lost souls come to Christ?
Although there are certainly many more stumbling blocks of which I could make mention, I will limit myself here to one more: irrelevant traditions in our churches. Many of you have, no doubt, already seen at some time the classic comedy vignette, Mr. Bean Goes to Church. Although it definitely makes for a good laugh, I think it also gives us good cause to reflect and consider just how it is that everyday unchurched people may respond to many traditions that we as “church folks” have come to accept as normal fare.
Although no one should be “given a free pass” regarding false doctrine or unbiblical methodology, I think we should be very careful before “throwing stones” at those who are trying to be more “seeker-sensitive” in their approach to ministry and evangelism. As Ed Stetzer discerningly commented in response to the previously referenced Lifeway study: People on the outside see the church as candles, pews and flowers, rather than people living out their love for God by loving others. Such skepticism can only be overcome by churches and believers who demonstrate the unity and love for which Jesus prayed. There will always be the stumbling block of the cross. Yet our study shows that many are tripping over the church before they hear the message of the cross.
All this leaves us asking, if such is the case, what can and should we do about it? It is practically impossible to make up for centuries of stumbling blocks and offenses perpetrated in the name of Christ in one 30-minute “witnessing opportunity.” Does that mean we should just be silent? Of course not. Our silence will not do anymore than our offenses in helping lost souls find Christ. But I do think that, when we share Christ with others, we cannot afford to do so in a way that acts as if these stumbling blocks did not exist. They are very real. And they are getting in the way of many, many people coming to faith.
As such, I think that, first of all, we all need to ask ourselves: “Am I, in my own lifestyle and attitudes, potentially being a stumbling block to someone else?” Next, we need to be prepared to humbly admit our shortcomings and failures as Evangelical Christians, and ask people to forgive us, even if we ourselves have not been directly involved. It won’t hurt us, and it could make a difference of eternity for someone else. Finally, each of us needs to do everything we can, and contribute our grain of sand, towards seeing as many of these larger-scale stumbling blocks as possible alleviated, corrected, and eventually taken totally out of the way.
As our Lord Jesus said, “it is inevitable that stumbling blocks come; but woe to that man through whom the stumbling block comes!”

13 Responses to “Stumbling Blocks”
By Russell on Jan 29, 2008 at 5:29 am
I became a Christian as an adult. I was so hungry to learn more about Jesus that I managed to more or less overlook the noticeably segregrated make up of the church relative to the local community. I had to work to try and fit into the peculiar sub-culture dynamics of SBC-speak that were not naturally accessible to me because they were not part of my childhood nor were they found in the Bible. I watched guys at Bible school advance in stature proportional to how fervent they could be ‘against’ a group. Just yesterday I got a forwarded e-mail from a Baptist lady telling a joke about Hillary falling off a bridge and how some kid was going to get beaten until crippled by his dad for not letting her drown.
So, speaking for one guy’s personal experience, your assessment of stumbling blocks in our community hits the target on every account. I am never ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ, but I cannot say the same for all aspects of our community.
(p.s. for those who will inevitably go on about how other groups are worse…????…., I still think there is more good news we should be living than what we are and that it helps to say so).
Thanks for challenging us to do even better, David.
By Marc Backes on Jan 29, 2008 at 8:00 am
David,
Great post. I’m going to add one more that I see having been on staff at an evangelistic para-church that could just have well been an arm of the SBC.
The way most people envision evangelism is just tragic. And I would say the way we have tried to do “evangelism” in a lot of ways has been a major stumbling block.
3 minute Gospel presentations - tracts and debate at the front door step - crusade type revivals where following Jesus is equated with a prayer…all fall into the category of what I would call “hit and run evangelism”.
Can God use them? Sure and I think God can use anything but at the same time the reason they don’t see us living out our faith is because we don’t know them…AT ALL…
Seriously, I would ask everyone to take stock as you read this and if you feel animosity towards me in saying it then I ask you to take the following test…
How many “non-believing” pagans do you currently have a “friendship” with..and by friendship I mean: to the point that you have had them into your home to have a meal and you have spent a few occasions doing something together in life other than inviting them to church…
If folks are honest, it would be scary how little a relationship exists between the folks in our pews and the folks outside our walls…
By Cyle on Jan 29, 2008 at 8:22 am
David,
I think you’ve done an incredible job. This, “It is practically impossible to make up for centuries of stumbling blocks and offenses perpetrated in the name of Christ in one 30-minute “witnessing opportunity.” Does that mean we should just be silent? Of course not. Our silence will not do anymore than our offenses in helping lost souls find Christ.” was especially good. Just because we’ve blown it doesn’t mean the gospel is any less powerful.
I think that every church that is faithful to the Lord will continuously work to understand how to be salt, light and the guardian of truth in this world, while at the same time doing that within each church’s cultural context. I don’t think I, here in rural Louisiana can tell you how to do this. I agree that we must ask “Am I, in my own lifestyle and attitudes, potentially being a stumbling block to someone else?” I think, though, that the focus nees to be backed up one more step, “Am I, in my own lifestlye and attitudes, truly a follower of Jesus Christ?” I’m thinking that the reason we’ve become stumbling blocks is because we’ve taken our eyes off the heavenly prize, and placed them on earthly ambitions (church growth, political power and impact, etc).
By Lew A on Jan 29, 2008 at 9:31 am
David,
Good post. I think this is a very important issue for us today. Not only because of racial prejudice or sexist prejudice but also from our zeal for politics (as the previous commenter eluded). I’m sure this discussion could extend to all walks of our lives.
Thanks again.
God’s Glory,
Lew
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By David Rogers on Jan 29, 2008 at 10:40 am
Russell,
Thanks for your contribution. How sad (about the joke, and the attitude it evidences). May God break our hearts, and bring us to repentance.
Marc,
I agree with you about one-off canned Gospel presentations. Relationships are key, and add so much needed authenticity to the message we proclaim. Yet, as I am in the States for this year, I am finding it hard to form meaningful relationships with unbelievers. Your words are definitely a challenge. I think perhaps many of us in “full-time ministry” would benefit from some practical suggestions about how to build relationships with unbelievers.
Cyle & Lew,
Thanks for your contribution as well. I don’t claim to be the best example in my own life and ministry. But, perhaps, by challenging, encouraging, and praying for each other, we can make a difference.
By Marc Backes on Jan 29, 2008 at 4:47 pm
David,
A valid question..and one that I’m facing now as I get ready to plant a church. My time at a parachurch taught me a lot and it showed me a lot of ways not to evangelize lost people…
I think some times we forget that the best transfer of Jesus from our lives to someone else’s comes as we are walking down the road with them. We see this is Jesus’ walk down the Emmaus road. And I think we would see it in our own lives.
I think sometimes once we become Christians that we think all we need to hang around now are church people because “that’s what church people do”. What we lose is that we still have to do life with those around us (our neighborhoods, our marketplaces, our schools, our bars, our auto repair shops, our golf courses, etc)..
So as we are in those places, it’s not so much of do we “do” evangelism, but more of whether we are “in” those places as regenerate Christians who will influence them.
I don’t know that I have very practical suggestions as I don’t think you can “make” yourself have friendships. They have to occur naturally. As an outflow of genuinely wanting to spend time with someone who is lost.
And once a friendship does bloom, we have to let time do what it does best. Let things sink in. We get in too big of a gosh darn hurry because we don’t believe in a sovereign God.
We try to nuke the process and in turn end up obliterating friendships because the lost person sees right through our “feigned” friendship…
So practically, are you making relational space to hang out at the hardware stores, bars, restaraunts, pubs, golf courses, stores, whatever in your area with the express hope of finding someone you can befriend…
Better yet, are you simply looking for them as they cross your path..
By David Rogers on Jan 29, 2008 at 9:28 pm
Marc,
Yes, I agree with you. This is the most effective evangelism, especially in the context in which we live now in the US. So much of the way we organize our time in “churched” America militates against this, though. It does help if you work with non-Christians. But, I agree with you, we should be more pro-active in seeking out these kind of relationships.
By cb scott on Jan 29, 2008 at 10:13 pm
David,
A-men to the post, but remember it is both Democrats and Republicans that have that problem. It has not historically been a Republican thing only.
One more thing, abortion is the greatest issue in our nation. Mike Huckabee has the strongest biblical worldview of any person running in any party. Therefore,
VOTE HUCKABEE, FIGHT ABORTION
cb
By David Rogers on Jan 29, 2008 at 10:49 pm
Yes, CB, it cuts both ways. I just brought out the Republicans, since I thought it would hit home more to most of the readers of this blog at this time.
Also, in my opinion, the biblical position on abortion is quite clear. We are not engaging in partisan politics when we openly oppose abortion. We are just being obedient to God’s will.
By SelahV on Jan 29, 2008 at 11:09 pm
David, ““it is inevitable that stumbling blocks come; but woe to that man through whom the stumbling block comes!”
“Woe”. Do you see this as the Believer upon which the “woe” will be bestowed?
Probably what bothers me most within our endeavors to lead others to a saving knowledge of our Lord, is that one man’s “stumbling block” is another man’s “building block”. And when Believer’s get to grabbing at the blocks, one to rip it out of the wall and the other to place it into the wall—that becomes the greater stumbling block which comes through the believers. Don’t you think? selahV
By David Rogers on Jan 29, 2008 at 11:21 pm
SelahV,
Good question about the “woe”. “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.” But, then again, I’m not sure that was the point Jesus was making here. In any case, I have seen plenty of believers who have played the role of “stumbling block” to unbelievers.
I’m not quite sure what you mean by “one man’s ’stumbling block’ is another man’s ‘building block’. Could you maybe give me an example?
By cb scott on Jan 29, 2008 at 11:21 pm
David,
Let me be so bold as to say if Hillary Clinton said she would devote her tenure as president to fighting to stop abortion, I would vote for her and send her money for her campaign.
You are right. it is not a partisan issue. Actually, it is our national sin and Southern Baptists lead the way. In 1971 the SBC meeting in St. Louis vote abortion on demand as a proper thing.
We opened the door to Roe V. Wade. It is our sin too.
cb